As a experienced Birth Doula I am based in Birmingham but will travel up to an hour to support a woman in birth.
I provide flexible continuous support for your family through pregnancy, birth and the early days of parenthood. Pregnancy can sometimes bring anxieties to surface, depending on your experience of the known or perhaps the unknown. As your doula I offer you and/or your birth partner support to ensure you are listened too, supported and are fully informed.
Care across maternity services differs and this can be difficult for women and their partners because continuity of care is sparse and this make knowing women and their partner's difficult. With me as your doula you can rely on my support and presence throughout.
Some women do not feel confident to question or explore their options in these circumstances because they feel pressured and not treated like an individual. Neither is acceptable as this can lead to not feeling in control, anxiety sets in and women can feel cheated out of their birth.
The support I offer you can consist of preparation for childbirth and settling in with your new baby. During the support I will give you information, explore your choices, offer reassurance, advocate on your behalf if/when required, ensure that your preferences are acknowledged, you are listened to, have conversations about the unexpected and ensure your birth partner feels supported. I have experience of supporting women at home birth, midwife led units MLU or hospital birth. I can help inform you about your options to breastfeed or bottle feed and I can offer support with this after birth.
My role as your doula is not to take the place of your partner, or get in the way of your intimacy with your partner. I understand when you need me and when you need me to take a step back. My continuity of care and support builds trust between me, you and your partner.
Childbirth changes your life forever it is a story you will never forget. We can only birth each child once and it really does matter. Doula's have positive outcomes for women and as Michel Odent says
"if doula's were a drug it would be unethical to use them"
My time spent is about you, I am there for you and your partner, I want you to feel empowered and have the most amazing positive birth experience possible. I will support you through whichever situation occurs ensuring you have all the information you need to make the right choices for you if needed.
I have supported women of varying ages from 18 to 42, women having 1st, 2nd 3rd... and 7th baby. Other varying situations I have supported where women have been low and high risk are with Water Birth, VBAC (Vaginal Birth After Caesarean), Epidural, Gestational Diabetes, IVF, C-Section and Group Strep B.
What does Birth Doula support consist of?
After we have met face to face and you have decided that I am the doula you want. We can then agree a specific support plan to meet your needs if required. As soon as you book my services you will get my support as you feel you need it, this can be through phone call, text, email and Whatsapp video. Generally most women are happy with this plan of support that I offer:
Antenatal Preparation ~ this usually consists of two 2.5 hour home visits to you at your home. This is different for each woman and is tailored to meet your requirements. This time is spent getting to know one another, offering you education on labour and birth as well as supporting you through anything specific to your needs. Usual things to talk about are pain relief, comfort measures, your wishes, boundaries, and birth plus many more.
I offer every woman the option of having access to two relaxation tracks also.
Inclusive of my support is an additional home visit providing you with aromatherapy back or feet massage (after 40 weeks).
Labour ~ Between 38 and 42 weeks of pregnancy, I will go "on call", this means that you can call me anytime day or night if you believe labour is starting/started. Going on call means that I anticipate that you could call me anytime and I would be available to join you at the point you feel you want me there. I aim to be with you within 60-90 minutes depending on your location.
Birth ~ No matter where you decide to give birth I will support you in your choices. Once you are ready for me to join you I can meet you at home or place of birth. From there I will support you physically and emotionally through labour. This includes supporting your partner too. I can be as hands on as you want me to be. I will stay with you throughout labour and birth for as long as that is what you want. I can support you with breastfeeding after birth as well as other practical support such as having a shower and changing. I will continually support you in your wishes and never make judgements of your decisions.
Postnatal ~ Within two weeks after birth we will together arrange a home visit for me to come out and see you and your beautiful baby. This visit is an opportunity to talk through how the birth went, help fill in any gaps, admire your baby and help with any practical things like bathing or possibly signposting.
Ongoing support ~ After birth I always offer 6 weeks telephone/text support. Should there be anything you require support with I can offer this, this might include information on local groups or some emotional support to talk through how you might be feeling.
Birth Doula Price £750
Still unsure have a look at these Frequently Asked Questions
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All the women I support can have free use of a birth ball and a MAMA Tens Machine for labour.
Any women I support with a home birth can also have free use of a birth pool (liner not provided).
La Bassine pool pictured and a Regular Birth Pool in a Box.
If you are considering me as your doula through my hypnobirthing workshops then it will be
important for us to have a discussion about how I can best support you during birth.
Hypnobirthing Doula support is and can be slightly different to my doula support.
We can discuss this more when we talk.